{"product_id":"the-unpacking-not-everything-is-yours-to-carry-guided-workbook","title":"The Unpacking: Not Everything Is Yours to Carry Guided Workbook","description":"\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cspan\u003eA guided workbook for women ready to stop carrying what was never theirs.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eYou can care deeply about people without carrying everything they carry.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eHowever, sometimes caring becomes responsibility.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eYou start apologizing when you haven't done anything wrong. You take responsibility for other people's feelings. You say yes when you want to say no. You fix things nobody asked you to fix. You feel guilty when you choose yourself. You keep making room for everyone else until you don't have much room left for you.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThe Unpacking\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cspan\u003e was created for that moment when you finally realize something has to change.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThis guided workbook gives you space to slow down, look honestly at what you've been carrying, understand where those patterns came from, and decide what you are ready to do differently.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eYou will work through seven stages designed to help you move from recognition to real-life change.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003e\u003cspan\u003eINSIDE YOU'LL EXPERIENCE:\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cspan\u003eWHAT ARE 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